When you first move in, your focus will be on unpacking and getting settled.  Amongst the chaos, it is important to fit in some time to get to know your neighbors.  Depending on the neighborhood, your neighbors may beat you to it.  Simply introducing yourself will go a long way.  Getting to know them will enable you to find out if they have interests that are similar to yours, whether or not they have children your age and if they enjoy they neighborhood.  Getting an overall feel for the neighbors will give you an opportunity to really begin to settle into your new neighborhood and find friends.

Once you have introduced yourself and have begun to exchange pleasantries, you can begin to get involved.  Find out about clubs or activities in your neighborhood that you can begin to take part.  Ask around to find out if there is a book, running or gardening club you could join.  If not, see if there is an interest and start one.  Find out if there are community activities that you can participate.  Go to direct sales parties when you are invited or if you have a direct sales business, hold a party and invite your neighbors.  If you are a sports enthusiast, invite your neighbors over to watch the game. Hold a casual party cocktail party and invite your neighbors.  This will give you a great opportunity to chat and get to know your neighbors socially.  

This is where the level of effort you put in will translate into what you will get out.  Therefore, make the effort to get to know your neighbors and you will be surprised at how quickly you will begin to meet friends and acquaintances.  Your neighbors will appreciate the effort you make.  Don’t be discouraged if this takes some time and a few tries before it yields results.  Some neighbors are just aloof.  If you have made the effort and nothing is reciprocated, just move on.  Be persistent and patient.  You will find just the right neighbors for you and your family.